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You Raise Me Up, Because You Are Your Brother's Keeper By Janet Treadway Sobering statistics demonstrate how swiftly society is self-destructing. We especially see self-destructive behavior in our teens. Are we to be our "brother's keeper" and help one another?
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More than 50 percent of all teens use alcohol or drugs. Teens now account for over a fourth of all sexually transmitted diseases. (Source of statistics: Teen Help Adolescent Resources, www.vpp.com/teenhelp/).
Our teens and young people are plagued with today. But what does that have to do with you and me? I don't have a problem with those things, so what? Am I responsible for them? Am I my brother's keeper? Are we our brother's keeper? In Genesis 4:9, Cain asked God the question, "Am I my brother's keeper?" Cain was trying to deny he had any responsibility for caring for his brother. The very fact God asked Cain, "Where is Abel your brother?" laid responsibility on Cain's shoulders. He indeed was his brother's keeper. Many people failed Dara Hughes by having the same attitude Cain had. Do you know a Dara Hughes? The PA cracked on and our principal began to speak in a raspy, serious and sorrowful tone: "I have a tragic incident to relate to you, and I want you all to listen and think about it. Dara Hughes, a sophomore here committed suicide yesterday..."
Only a week ago she had been alive and now... I shivered as goose bumps pricked all over my body. I turned my attention back to the scratchy voice of the principal: "Please look around you at your classmates. Is there anyone who is left out all the time, anyone who has no friends? Please tell your teacher if you know of anyone." It is too late for Dara, but it is not too late to help and encourage those around you. Sometimes life can be pretty tough, but to go the road alone can make the road long, lonely and rough. Popular singing star Josh Groban sings the song, "You Raise Me Up!" Here are the lyrics:
Do you have strong shoulders that can lift someone up and get him or her going again when the valleys seem so deep? What if your friend has a drinking or a drug problem, how do you help? What if he or she is depressed and thinking of suicide, like Dara? What if you know someone who is struggling, like Melissa, with anorexia and bulimia? How can we carry our friends on our shoulders until they are strong enough to stand on their own? Here are some steps you can take to be your brother's keeper: DO:
On the other hand, you can discourage your friend by doing certain things. DON'T:
Being a young person is tough. Young people face many pressures in life. Everyone wants to be all he or she can be. Everyone wants to be loved and to succeed. Everyone needs a friend to help him or her along this difficult journey. No man is an island! In 1 Thessalonians 5:11 and 14, we read, "Therefore comfort each other and edify one another, just as you also are doing... comfort the fainthearted, uphold the weak, be patient with all." We need each other! God's help
Psalm 18:32-36 states, "It is God who arms me with strength and makes my way perfect. He makes my feet like the feet of a deer, and sets me on my high places. He teaches my hands to make war, so that my arms can bend a bow of bronze. You have also given me the shield of Your salvation; Your right hand has held me up; Your gentleness has made me great. You enlarged my path under me, so my feet did not slip." God, 2 Corinthians 1:4 says, "comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God." God will give us the strength to help others in their darkest hours. He will give us wisdom and calmness to handle it! No matter how difficult being our brother's keeper may prove, we must!
Remember, you cannot force someone to seek help, change their habits or adjust their attitudes. You can make a difference by honestly sharing your concerns, providing support and knowing where to go for more information. You may need outside help for yourself. If you are feeling overwhelmed or frustrated, talk to a professional. With wisdom, prayer and help from others you can make a difference in someone's life! We all should have a part in making someone all that they can be. For we are all our brother's keeper! Recommended reading For more information concerning the paths our lives should take, read our free booklet . Life can be confusing without God's direction. Copyright 2006 by United Church of God, an International Association All rights reserved. |
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